"Love enables you to put your deepest feelings and fears in the palm of your partner's hand, knowing they will be handled with care." Carl S. Avery

"You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, she is beautiful because you love her". Anonymous

"Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none" William Shakespeare in All's Well That Ends Well, Act i, Sc.1

"Woman was created from the rib of man: Not from his head to be thought of only, nor from his hand to be owned, nor from his foot to be beneath, but from under his arm to be protected, from his side to be equal, and from his heart to be loved..".Author

"Listening is an attitude of the heart, a genuine desire to be with another that both attracts and heals." J. Isham

"To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others." Francois Mauriac

"Love is being stupid together."

"Love means never having to say you're sorry." Love Story, 1970

    下午不小心看到住处窗外的景色，忍不住用新手机拍了下来。真是灿烂啊！

    连着几周动不动就下雨，心情也跟着一直阴霾。

    总感觉每一滴雨，都是人们跨越时间和空间的思念。每一滴落到地面都会摔个粉碎，可是然后又会周而复始，变成云；思念太沉的时候，再变成雨落下来……那么多的雨点，有多少能落在我的脸上，被我感应到？

    天开始很凉了，5~10度基本上是。老板最近奇怪地开始各种找我干活，于是经常七点多天没怎么亮就去办公室，晚上6点多七点多天很黑的时候才回家。本来就没什么天放晴的时候，这样一来更是长期看不见阳光，长期面对着电脑，思过……效率比较低下，事情不着急的时候就常常犯困。前天听说，人长期不晒太阳会导致情绪低落，于是吃过午饭出去走了走。

    “不管实际效果怎么样，还是有点安慰作用的，觉得为情绪做了点事情~就会好一些”。

    密歇根湖的水不知道为什么变成蓝绿色，还有一带一带的黑，被冷风吹得很不好看。湖边的石头巍然不动，上面各种语言写着的可爱的誓言，经受着阳光风雨、湖水以及时光的雕琢。天并不很晴朗，有厚厚的云掩盖着太阳的光，云的边缘被照得很耀眼，阻止我改善心情；低一些薄的云像飘渺的轻纱，像水中溶开的牛奶，被很冷很冷的风吹得像是要冻僵了，缓缓地缓缓地飘浮在空中，像是伸手就可以触摸到。云层遮盖不住的地方，就是那清新得很可爱的蓝，很高，很遥远……

    球场草坪上，成群的大雁一起嘻戏，然后编队飞走；不同主人的两条很好看的狗也草地上很开心地互相缠斗着玩。很多树叶开始从树顶上开始变红，像特意只染红几缕头发的时尚小伙儿……

    就算是有时晚上在昏暗的灯光和阴凉的小雨中走回家，也是常常感觉所处地方的美好。只是，总感觉这许多的美好与自己没有多大关系，就反而更加落寞起来……

    没有阳光就多打球吧。其实，大概只是需要一个宣泄的出口……

"The love of my life came not as love unto others is cast; for mine was a secret wound - but the wound grew a pearl, at last." Edith Thomas

"Love reminds you that nothing else matter." Amy Bushell

"Love is the most abiding power of the world". Martin Luther King

"For every lover is, in his head, a madman and in his heart a minstrel" Neil Gaiman

"I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightfowardingly, without complexeties or pride. So I love you because i know no other way than this..." Pablo Neruda

"We are shaped and fashioned by what we love." Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

"The only abnormality is the incapacity to love". Anais Nin

"If the only place where I could see you was in my dreams, I'd sleep forever."

"Love lives on hope, and dies when hope is dead; It is a flame which sinks for lack of fuel". Pierre Corneille

    上周五比较水地过了PhD Qualifying Exam（口试），以后终于可以自称PhD Candidate了哈哈……那天下午考试的期间，据说外面下起了冰雹。最近接连的阴雨天，气温降得很快；现在已经是10度上下，户外打网球嫌太凉了已经。一考完试，忙着修改一篇APL已经录用的文章，周日下午在学校忙到六点多才算提交完毕了。然后今天下午打完网球一回到家，老板就开始催下一个文章了，还是跟不上老板的节奏……真是可怜。唯一的好处是永远不用担心毕业的问题；因为老板都为我们担心了，我们乖乖听话就可以……

    本来今年没打算回家的，幸好上次得的奖学金有一部分是科研经费，老板问我要不要回国开个学术会议……于是后来定了12月去武汉开会。我定行程的时候，他还让我在家里多呆些时间……真是无限NICE……行程告诉大家，有时间的话一起聚一下：）

12月10号 -- 14号 北京
      14号 -- 16号 广州
      17号 -- 18号 武汉
      19号 --         汕头
1月11号 -- 13号 北京

    灌水完毕，干活睡觉，睡觉干活。

"If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were." Kahlil Gibran

"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love". Tom Robbins in "Still Life With Woodpecker"

"No act of love is ever wasted". Geneen Roth

"And remember, my sentimental friend, that a heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others". Professor Marvel in ['Wizard of Oz' and also by 'Karl Marx' in 1844]

"True love is friendship caught on fire."French Proverb

"No matter how hard things seem, True love will aide you through it."

"Love is when you look into someone's eyes and go all the way inside, to their soul and you both know... instantly."Angela Chase "My So Called Life"

"The love we give away is the only love we keep". Elbert Hubbard

"I love you. It's not a weight you must carry around. I love you. It's not a box that holds you in. I love you. It's not a standard you have to bear. I love you. It's not a sacrifice I make. I love you. It's not a pedestal you are frozen upon. I love you. It's not an expectation of perfection. I love you. It's not my life's whole purpose (or your's). I love you. It's not to make you change. I love you. It's not even to make you love me. I love you. It's as pure and simple as that." Anonymous

"Love is a gift of one's innermost soul to another so both can be whole." Tea Rose